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Out of Europe’s Long Jobs Crisis, Voices of the Young

Europe’s drawn-out economic crisis has had a profound impact on young people across the Continent, and has become the biggest challenge facing European leaders. Youth unemployment has soared to historic highs, especially in Europe’s hard-hit south, forcing many young people to leave their families and communities in search of jobs abroad, to accept temporary and underpaid work often out of sync with their education and skills, and to readjust their expectations for their future. And yet for some, the crisis has presented opportunities for growth and stimulated creativity.
By LIZ ALDERMAN, HANNA INGBER and SHREEYA SINHA

Europe's unemployment crisis, now in its sixth year, has had a profound impact on young people across the Continent, and has become among the biggest economic, political and social challenges facing European leaders. Joblessness among young people is at historic highs, forcing many of them to leave their families and countries in search of jobs abroad, to accept temporary and underpaid work that often has little to do with their education and skills, and to readjust their expectations for their future. There is some evidence that Europe's economies are starting to recover, but there is also growing concern that members of this generation may never recapture the opportunities they have lost. Their stories are about hardship, but also about creative adaptation and in some cases unexpected opportunity.

The New York Times asked young people in Europe to share their stories about how the crisis has affected them. Here is a selection of their responses; they have been edited and condensed. Related Article »

  1. Take What You Can Get

    Beatrice Belli, 27

    • From Rome
    • Master’s degree in social media
    Gianni Cipriano for The New York Times
    Beatrice Belli was told that she was overqualified when she searched for a job in Rome.

    I graduated six months ago with a master’s degree specializing in social media from Milan, to prepare for “jobs of the future.” With the help of scholarships and my parents and relatives, I’ve done two internships abroad, including one in the United States. But when I searched for a job back home in Rome, the responses I got from companies were that I was too qualified and that it was cheaper to hire only interns. I was offered internships with no salary.

    So I moved in with my parents, which is frustrating after you have been out of your house for some time and made a life for yourself. While I look for full-time opportunities, I work part time as a low-paid freelancer for a media agency and as a waitress. Yes, I could settle for less than a graduate-level job, like a shopkeeper or something more humble, but I’m still trying to get the job I studied for. I wish I could tell my family that this was a good investment and that I can repay them. But it seems as if nowadays everyone has a degree, so it’s not that valuable anymore. This is a topic I’m really concerned about because I can’t seem to find my place in this economy.

    Also, the company that owns my parents' house is finally selling them the house where they have been living for 30 years, so from now on they will have to face the loan expenses. Instead of being able to help them, I am once again dependent on them. I would still love to move abroad for work, but given the current situation, I have to job-hunt from here, which is not really ideal, but I am confident that I will find something because I’m a very determined person.

  2. Johanna González, 29

    • From Barcelona, Spain, living in London
    • Master's degree in business law

    I was working as a business lawyer for a few companies in Spain before I lost my job in 2011. I ended up working for a man who owed me 3,000 euros [about $4,000], but he never paid me. So I decided to move to London with about two weeks' worth of savings. The quickest job I could find was as a server in a Spanish restaurant. I expected sympathy from other Spaniards in London, but got none. I was at the bottom of a rat race as all of the other workers in the restaurant had also left Spain and faced similar circumstances. I was fired after about three months because of differences with the owner, but I am a strong person, and I luckily found another job as a waitress in a nice Japanese restaurant. A month later, I filled in as an event planner, and I am currently managing jobs at three venues.

    My mother, 57, lives in Barcelona and does not have a job. My sister lives in Germany with her husband, so she and I support our mother. We send Mom €300 [about $400] every month. Last month, my boyfriend proposed to me, and I’m trying to find the cheapest way possible to have a wedding.

    Sometimes I wish I were doing something more focused on business law in London. Ultimately, when you spend seven years studying nothing but law, you expect to make a profit out of that sacrifice and to find a good job in that field. In university they tell you that if you put your heart into something you’ll be fine, so it is terribly disappointing not to be able to use my degree. But I’m glad because law school taught me more than just law and ethics. I learned how to think. Now I feel thankful because I’ve realized there are a lot of things in life you cannot learn from books.

  3. Leslie Spillane, 25

    • From Cork, Ireland, living in Oakland, Calif.
    • Master’s degree in modern and contemporary art history
    Noah Berger for The New York Times
    Leslie Spillane's family in Ireland told her not to move back home for several years because of the lack of work opportunities.

    I had a job at home, working in a hostel, but it was unrelated to my qualifications, and I wasn't paid well. I wanted to work at a museum or gallery, something in visual arts. I came to San Francisco because of the arts scene there. Now I’m living in Oakland and working for a nonprofit in San Francisco, a high school exchange program for international students. I’m working full time, but it doesn’t pay well. It is temp work. I was hired for three months, and it keeps getting extended. It pays about $12 an hour.

    My family at home is struggling financially and has told me not to bother moving home for at least five or six years. Knowing that returning home is not even an option makes the experience of living abroad feel more desperate than adventurous. Friends and family members who don't have the option to look for work abroad are suffering from depression, and some of them are living very close to the poverty line. I am happy to be traveling and getting work experience, but you want to know that if it doesn’t work out you can go home again.

    Marriage and children are not an option at all at the moment, and I don't think they will be for a very long time. Buying a home is unthinkable, either at home or in the country in which I'm currently employed. I cannot afford to visit home. A lot of my family would like me to come home for Christmas, but it’s too expensive. I also can’t just take a week off because I am temporary staff. It would be unpaid if I took a week off, plus I don’t know if I am allowed.

    I’m thinking it might be fun to go to Canada or teach English in Latin America maybe next summer. I don’t really want to tie myself down to a job that doesn’t pay very well when I could be traveling or living in a new place next year.

  4. Louise Fahey, 23

    • Living in County Tipperary, Ireland
    • Bachelor's degree in law

    After graduating from law school at the University of Limerick and completing an internship in Brussels, I realized how hard it was to get a legal traineeship in Ireland. So I enrolled in a Springboard course, a part-time education initiative offered by the government to help people qualify in enterprise sectors that are still growing and need skilled labor. The program allowed me to take classes in I.T. while continuing to receive unemployment benefits, through which I received about €140 [about $190] a week.

    I took the course because I thought it would help me find a good job, but I’m not very technical-minded and it wasn’t a good fit for me. So I applied for various jobs in Ireland, ranging from a legal assistant to a waitress in a coffee shop, but I didn't hear back. My mother could see I was disheartened, so she encouraged me to apply abroad.

    I recently took an opportunity to teach English in Jiamusi in the northeast of China. I will earn a good salary and be able to save up to do a master’s degree when I return next year in September. I’m nervous about it because that area is remote, near Siberia. I’ll have a local teaching assistant, but I’m worried about culture shock, too. If the Irish government were doing more to tackle youth unemployment and create jobs for my generation, then I would not have to be in this position.

    Ten years ago, my law degree would have been appreciated in Ireland, but my mother reminded me that I could have had a huge mortgage on a house which would now be worth a fraction of the price. My father owned a trucking business that collapsed about four years ago. He only recently got a full-time job as a truck driver. My mother works part time at a place that serves mentally disabled people, and that is where most of the family income comes from.

  5. Plummeting Hopes

    Sanja Gregic, 25

    • From Djakovo, Coatia, living in Zagreb, Croatia
    • Master’s degrees in English and history
    Heinz S. Tesarek for The New York Times
    Sanja Gregic's life changed in 2010 when her parents and brother lost their jobs while she was pursuing a degree in Zagreb, Croatia.

    When I started studying for my bachelor’s degree, my dad, mom and brother had jobs, and my parents were able to support me while I studied. When I graduated in 2010, everything changed. First my dad lost his job, then my brother did, and then my mother — all a few months apart from one another. For several years we were in huge debt. We owed money to the state, relatives and friends.

    The job my father had in an insurance company wasn’t stable, so when he lost it, he felt so useless and stressed out that he eventually got sick with diabetes and problems with his nervous system. He lost the will to live. A year ago, at 52, he had a heart attack and died.

    Sometimes parents have kids and they want to live for their kids, but he didn't want to live for me or my brother. I guess I can’t blame him. We had to borrow money from relatives just to bury him. My mom lost 10 kilograms within two months, and we both had trouble sleeping. We could afford to buy bread for the family only once every four days.

    Sanja Gregic
    Zdenko Gregic, 46, Ms. Gregic's father, four years before he lost his job and got sick.

    When I started my master’s degree, I had to pay for my apartment and all the expenses. I had some leftover scholarship money, but I also had to work at a call center. I had to delay graduating so that my mother could receive a pension, which was €200 [about $270] per month for the whole family.

    My brother eventually found a job in sales, and after I graduated with my master’s in June 2013, I found a job teaching. Just to survive, I have to teach 40 to 50 classes a month to earn about €400 [about $540]. I’m paid per lesson, so there’s no stability. We are afraid to invest in anything or take out a loan because you never know when you’ll be able to pay it off.

    I’m living with my boyfriend right now, but I want to move to Australia. He doesn’t, but I’ve told him that if we stay here, I don’t want to bring kids into this kind of world. Sometimes I have anxiety attacks and stomach problems. I feel exhausted, depressed and sad. I hate this country. I hate living like this. I have lost faith in everything.

  6. Catia Rodrigues, 28

    • From Setúbal, Portugal, living in New York
    • Master’s degree in journalism

    The financial crisis has had a big impact on my life, on my parents’ lives, on my friends and on the country in general. Because I am unemployed, of course, I cannot think about having children or getting married, much less about buying a house.

    Being unemployed for so long has had a negative impact on my self-esteem and makes me doubt more and more my professional capacity. Personally, it makes me feel like a failure. It makes me feel like I have not reached anything of what I was expected to have reached by my age.

    Since the crisis began, I have seen a lot of friends and friends of friends leave the country. I see many people sad about this situation, especially the parents of these young people who are being forced to emigrate. Many relationships are being torn apart because of the economic crisis in my country.

    My parents have their own business and are constantly afraid of going under. This causes uncertainty, sadness and a huge stress on their lives. They are also constantly worried about me, which makes me sad. I wish I were not a burden on my parents. I recently moved to New York City to look for jobs and internships.

  7. Ryan Gray, 20

    • From Milton Keynes, England, living in Liverpool
    • Bachelor’s degree in history expected in 2014

    From 2008 to 2010, both my mother and her boyfriend were unemployed because of the recession, so my family had to live off savings and benefits as the debt piled up. In 2008, my mom’s boyfriend, who was a bricklayer, was laid off because of a mixture of the recession and what some say was an increase in competition from immigration.

    We didn’t have enough money to pay rent, so in January 2010, when my mother had my sister, she received an eviction notice. My mother tried to appeal through the legal process and went to different agencies for support for months but was ultimately unsuccessful. The local authorities were unable to find us social housing, which is a form of subsidized housing, before the eviction. They had to put my family in a bread-and-breakfast while repairs were made on a unit that was not ready. My sister was 10 months old by then, I was 17, and my brothers were 8 and 2. There wasn’t enough space for me, so I had to stay with my extended family and friends until the housing was ready. It was only recently that my mom’s boyfriend got a job after losing it at the beginning of the recession.

    I do not want to make any financial commitments in the foreseeable future because with many jobs having one-year contracts, it is too risky to get a mortgage on a property. I’ve been selected by the Conservative Party to stand in local elections around the same time I graduate next year. I am open to moving abroad. However, nothing is confirmed yet. Despite what happened to my family, I feel I am in the best possible situation to secure a job after I graduate.

  8. Hard Choices

    Giulia Sergi, 26

    • From Manduria, Italy, living in Berlin
    • Master’s degree in international business studies
    Djamila Grossman for The New York Times
    Giulia Sergi does not see herself settling down in Germany, but she has no choice but to find work there.

    I began my search for an internship in Milan in 2011. I had about 10 interviews in Milan, and I didn’t get anything. Eventually, after I took internships in France and Germany, I got a job offer for a junior position in Milan at an ad agency, but they would pay me only €1,200 a month [about $1,600]. That’s not enough to live on. I applied for jobs in Germany online and found one in Berlin where I got a one-year temporary contract as a marketing manager, paying €1,800 a month [about $2,400], much more than what I would have made in Italy, which is also a more expensive place to live.

    I have been much happier and gained a lot of experience in Germany. However, I have just been told that my job will soon be terminated. Now I am job-hunting everywhere. I cannot be unemployed for long. I hate doing nothing, plus my savings are not much.

    When you tell Italians you have a one-year temporary contract in Germany, they say, “My God, I’m sorry.” It’s precarious work, but I have been O.K. with it. It has been a way to get experience, and it’s a stepping stone to something else. But obviously every now and then I’d like to go back to my country. I never planned on living in Germany, nor do I want to live here forever. It’s so cold in Germany. You have 300 days of winter and bad food.

    I lived in four countries; I’m adaptable. I have no problem living abroad, but I don’t know if I can ever belong here. I live with another Italian friend here, and I don’t think anyone wants to stay here long. I feel frustrated that I can’t go back to my country and be as financially happy as I can be here. I could do so much more if I were in Italy.

    My friends back in Italy are all having a hard time. I know a lot of people who left Italy in the last two years, like me. My sister decided to stay and work in Italy. She’s older, 30, and is only now earning as much as I do here. You can’t have a family or afford a mortgage. In Italy people with five years of experience will compromise on pay. You will accept an internship paying hardly anything for three years. People are desperate to find money, and they just can’t find it. I guess no one wants to leave his own country unless there’s a war. The other reason to leave is poverty, and if we don’t want to stay in poverty, what else can we do?

  9. Esther Sebastián, 25

    • From Spain, living in Copenhagen
    • Master's degree in education

    At first, moving to Copenhagen was pretty hard. I came with the expectation of finding work as a Spanish teacher at a private academy, but I could not find anything there or at other schools. Everywhere I went, people wanted me to speak good Danish (and I could not wait the time it takes to learn Danish without working). I thought about returning home many times, but I had nothing to do in Spain. So little by little, I learned Danish and taught Spanish to private clients to earn some money.

    In March, I opened my own business offering Spanish lessons. Everything then became much more difficult because I have no training in accounting. I had to learn how to run a business while I taught and was looking for more customers. I think the worst part was that I was working 24 hours a day and not even earning enough to cover my housing. Luckily, I had money saved.

    I’ve been in Denmark for almost a year now, and my business is doing well, and I earn enough money to live in this country, although I do not think I’ll become a millionaire. And I speak Danish, and I can communicate with people without too much difficulty. I still occasionally think of going back because life here is much harder than in Spain, and I am very lonely, but I guess I'm here because in Spain there is nothing to do. When I go to Spain I feel depressed because I see the situation, and everyone is quite sad.

  10. Laura Payne, 26

    • From Nottingham, England, living in Coventry, England
    • Master’s degree in conflict studies and human rights
    Provided by Laura Payne
    Laura Payne in Karesuando, Sweden, in December 2010.

    I left graduate school and struggled to find job opportunities in my field. I took an internship working for a research center in Cambridge. To pay for it, I had taken a job running a bar in the Arctic the winter before. It was dark all day and night, freezing cold, and I worked 12-hour-days, six days a week, for less than minimum wage. It was bloody hard work, but I did get to see the northern lights a lot.

    When I did get offered a paid job in development, it happened to be working for the church, which was a surprise for me. My career really took off from there, and now a few years down the line I am working for one of the top research institutes in my field, managing some major research projects and building a reputation for myself. I travel frequently, and I know that what we do here really makes a difference.

    Even though I now have a stable job with a good salary, I also have a lot of debt and no savings. I don't think about settling down, having children or buying a place of my own. I know that to really move up in my career I need to stay flexible and be ready to drop everything and move anywhere. It's a sacrifice, but I worked too hard to let things get in my way now.

  11. An Uncertain Future

    Daisy Scholte, 28

    • From Zeist, the Netherlands, living in Utrecht, the Netherlands
    • Master’s degree in film production
    Ilvy Njiokiktjien for The New York Times
    Daisy Scholte works four jobs in the Netherlands and has put off seeing a doctor because of the expense.

    I grew up being told that I could become anything I wanted, as long as I worked hard and educated myself. I did all of these things, but even after receiving my master’s degree two years ago, it is still hard to find a job that really suits my interest. I have applied to many, many different jobs over the past two years. I have worked in several restaurants. I’ve had a few part-time jobs in media as well, film jobs.

    At the beginning of this year, I was only working in a cafe serving coffee, and that was really when I didn’t want to get out of bed. I didn’t study for five years to make a cup of coffee. But I realized I had to accept the situation, develop a flexible mind-set and combine different jobs.

    At the moment, I have money coming in from four jobs: besides working in a cafe serving coffee, and working as a cleaning lady, I am writing for a local newspaper as a freelancer and working as a reporter on food waste for a nutrition center. The latter two jobs actually come close to my professional ambition, but I am earning only €850 to €1,000 a month [about $1,100 to $1,300].

    I’m paying very low rent but could lose the flat at any moment. Health care has become really expensive, so I really think twice before visiting a specialist. I know I've got some issues that I should see my doctor for, but I don't have the money to do so. So I won't as long as I don't really, really have to.

    I have to admit that I have days when I’m like, “I’m just a loser,” or something. Just the other day my mom saw a vacancy for a really cool job and told me to go for it. I thought it would be so great to have this job, but I know it’s going to be me and 600 people applying for it. That was really a moment when I realized times have changed. A few years ago, when I started studying, I never thought it would be this tough.

    Over all, I don’t think it’s going to get better soon. It’s just going to be more people competing with me, and I’m just getting older and more expensive. I want to try to save up some money to produce my own documentary. My dream is to make people aware about global issues.

  12. Owen Joyce, 23

    • From County Tipperary, Ireland, living in County Galway, Ireland
    • Master’s degree in economics

    I have been unemployed since I left college in September 2012. I have been looking for work almost nonstop since then. I have moved away from my family, and I am living with friends. I'm still on social welfare in Ireland, but I am getting only €194 per week [about $260], so getting married or having children or buying a home has never even crossed my mind. On so little money, those things are completely out of the question.

    The economic crisis may force me to leave Ireland altogether to search for work, but as the situation is similar almost everywhere, I don't know how successful that might be. Many people that I went to college with have emigrated because of the crisis. I wish them well, but it is saddening to know I may never meet them again.

    I have put so much time and effort into getting my master’s degree because I thought it would lead to a good stable job at the end of it. I tailor my C.V. (résumé) to every single job and write my cover letter as professionally as I can, but most of the time I don't even get a response back from the employer. It's unbelievably disheartening to have put in so much effort over the years but to have effectively nothing to show for it. The whole situation makes me feel worthless and useless.

    I have done a few interviews and prepared as well as I could for them, but I haven't gotten any positive news from it. When the employer tells me he won't give me the job, he says there were others who had more experience than I had. That's so frustrating because there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. I can't get a job without significant experience, but if nobody will hire me, then I can't get any experience! I don't know what to do anymore. It just makes me really upset and frustrated.

    It is still a possibility to leave Ireland. It’s always in the back of my mind. It’s something that’s in the mind of every young person in Ireland.

  13. Luka Tomas, 27

    • Living in Zagreb, Croatia
    • Master’s degree in journalism
    Filip Horvat for The New York Times
    Luka Tomas says that for him, getting a job should be about investing in his future, not just about earning money.

    Since I was 16, I have been part of Zagreb’s punk rock culture. I’m a singer in a band that has had some success. We won a national award for best new band and received over two million views on one of our videos on YouTube. I also work part time as a youth adviser for 1,500 kunas a month [about $260]. Getting a job, even a lousy one, is often difficult without connections and nepotism. I could take advantage of this, but I would have to change my moral code.

    Provided by Luka Tomas
    Luka, center, with his family in the first apartment they were renting in Zagreb, Croatia, in the late 1980s.

    I live with my parents in a 50-square-meter apartment. Living standards have generally degraded for us Croatians. My dad is a well-known artist, but now he has to basically become a salesman to sell his pieces since art is now considered more of a luxury. We’ve had some ups and downs in our family. We had some money saved up in a bank, but that bank went bankrupt, and it took us three weeks to get our money back.

    I would like to pursue a Ph.D. in cultural studies and then hopefully get some kind of assistant position at a university. It wouldn’t be much of a boost to have that kind of degree in the current work force, but for me, it’s not about taking the easy way out and getting a job just to have money. It’s an investment in my future, and I’ve been feeling optimistic about it recently because I’m working toward that goal. My dream is that I’ll be able to take care of my parents, since old age isn't exactly the best time of our lives. I want to be a stronger person for this colder world my generation inherited.

  14. George Skivalos, 28

    • Living in Athens
    • Bachelor's degree in economics

    I was working as a store manager in Athens, making about €1,300 per month [about $1,750]. But when the financial crisis began in 2011, my salary was cut by more than half. Like my friends, I thought about leaving for England or America to find work, but then my father passed away. So I stayed and moved in to support my mother. I couldn’t leave Greece, but I also couldn’t find a job. I quit my job last year hoping to start a small, environmentally friendly business, a biological foods cafe, but the government took forever to grant permits, and the banks weren’t lending.

    While living with my mother, I decided to write a book about life in Greece before the crisis. I published the book and have been living off the small royalties that I received. I am continuing to look for jobs, but cannot find anything. It gets discouraging when you can’t find a job and you have been continuously sending out your C.V.'s for a year or two.

    Everyone in Greece is compromising for their jobs. People are doing anything they can, even if it is for as little as €300 a month [about $400], without any insurance. Things have become so bad. Many young people no longer dream about the future because many of us are not doing anything in the most productive age of our life. Even if we get out of the crisis, maybe in four years, I’ll be 32, and then what? I will have missed the opportunity to be in a company with upward mobility.

  15. Laura Brogiato, 25

    • Living in San Martino di Venezze, Italy
    • Two master’s degrees in international management

    I came back after two years abroad because I wanted to settle down in Italy. I was really excited about starting a new chapter, but day after day I've realized that the conditions of the economy are worse than what I thought. I am living with my family because I have no job.

    In general, the situation is quite depressing because young people don’t look at the future with hope. They see only a big black hole, and that’s it. It’s very scary. Sometimes I think it’s like the beginning of the last century, when people were forced to go to America because there was literally nothing here. Of course, things have improved since then, but again, you are forced to leave if you want a future. So it’s the same situation.

  16. New Beginnings

    Mara Simperler, 25

    • From Mistelbach, Austria, living in Vienna
    • Master’s degree in international development
    Heinz Stephan Tesarek for The New York Times
    Mara Simperler formed a collective for young journalists.

    Even though Austria is comparatively little affected by the economic crisis, we still can feel it, especially in the media. They are trying to figure a lot of things out with digital, and they are cutting jobs everywhere. For a young journalist right now, it is quite hard to get employed. I’m working as a freelance journalist.

    Due to this situation, I have co-founded a collective for young journalists and photographers with some friends so we can help each other get assignments and work on projects together. Let’s say the photographer has good connections with one magazine and he gets assigned the story: he can then bring on the journalist. If I get an article assigned, I can recommend a photographer. We share resources, contacts and stories. We can talk to each other about stories.

    Of course it’s uncomfortable to not have the security of employment. But at the same time, when I see what the people I know are coming up with, I’m really struck by what they do. I think it has forced all of us to become more creative. We are trying other measures to fund our projects or generate income than just getting employed. A lot of the young people I know have started their own projects — this may be freelancing, starting a business, etc. Even though all of us are living a precarious life, I think at the same time it brings up a lot of creativity, and I really admire it.

  17. Magdalini Christia, 31

    • From Thessaloniki, Greece, living in London
    • Master’s degree in engineering
    Julian Jimenez Nunez
    Magdalini Christia, right, upon graduating with a master's degree from City University London in 2007.

    I left London after working as an engineer for a year because it seemed easier to bond with people in Greece. Now I once again have a full-time job as an engineer in London after taking the decision to permanently leave Athens. After feeling like a financial refugee who was deprived of opportunities for years, I feel like I’ve completely turned over a new leaf. It is easy to forget the crisis here sometimes, although I have to still pay off my expenses back home in Greece.

    The first time I was in London was before the crisis. I left because the Greeks are warm people and I thought it would be easier for me to find a partner, have a family and still have a career there. So I moved back home and started working there in 2008.

    Around 2010, when my company asked me to cut down on my working hours, it became impossible to find a full-time job, just short contracts. On top of that, the government considers engineers self-employed, so I could not receive any unemployment benefits, but still had to pay taxes. While I was jobless, I got married to my boyfriend on Nov 26, 2011. Just a few days later, the political party he worked for, the Socialist Pasok party, stopped paying its employees. For the past two and a half years, he has shown up to work in the hopes he will get paid, but he has been given peanuts every seven months.

    After just a month and a half into our marriage, I decided to move back to London to look for a job. That was the beginning of a traumatic experience. I remember crying every day. I felt trapped in London. My husband felt trapped in Athens. After a couple months, I got an opportunity back in Athens, so I took it. But my husband had changed: His nerves and heart were broken because of the financial crisis. He was in a bad phase, either withdrawn or having oral outbursts, which made the whole relationship different and unpleasant. We divorced after seven to eight months of marriage. I strongly believe that if these financial problems weren't here, I would have children by now and be happy. Now that I’m in London trying to make it for myself, finding love is just not part of the plan right now.

  18. Claire Cameron, 24

    • From Glasgow, living in New York
    • Master’s degree in journalism

    When I was younger and decided I wanted to be a journalist, I thought I would graduate, start writing at a local paper and work my way up. Maybe even have my own place in my 20s — the way you hear everyone else does it. To support myself through university, I worked as a health worker in methadone rehab clinics in some really horrible areas of Glasgow. I did years' worth of unpaid internships, hoping that a position might come up, but nothing did, so I applied and went into Columbia University for a master’s degree in journalism.

    Since I graduated last May, I have found a full-time internship and freelance work. I really do love it here and feel there’s a commitment to taking young people on. The standard of living here is much higher than back home. On one hand, I see this as an adventure, but on the other, I miss my family and think about whether I’ve put my life on hold and when I’m going to settle down.

    I have work authorization that extends until May 2014, but I don't know whether I'll be chucked out of the country or not because I'll have to get a new work visa, which isn't easy. So having simple things like a boyfriend or a lease on an apartment seems futile.

    The psychological impact of knowing I could be confined to my parents' home lest I become homeless, knowing that I can be as educated as I like and be stuck in a dead-end job, and knowing that things may never improve is incredibly burdensome. That would be my reality if I were to return home at this point.

  19. Oliver South, 26

    • From London, living in Cairo
    • Master's degree in history
    Salah Hamzeh
    Oliver South and his friend Eveliina Karhu in Garden City in Cairo.

    With a degree in history, I would have ideally wanted to be in the academic field and pursue a Ph.D, but it was hard to find funding. I was working for the retail branch of a bank while going to university, so I continued to do that after graduating. I wasn’t considering a career in the government, but the changing economy forced me to apply for jobs that I wouldn’t have considered before. Now I work at the British Embassy in Cairo, mostly doing administrative work.

    Although things have been tough in Cairo within the last year, I am really enjoying what I do. I think one always has to fulfill this element of “doing their time,” so this is just a small part of doing less attractive jobs to move up. I am supposed to come back to London in the next couple of years, but I hope to do some more postings so I can climb the ladder. While I am working overseas, I can save money so I can use it to buy a house later.

    My girlfriend works for the marketing department of a theater company in Canterbury, near London. For me, moving back to London would be a challenge because the rent prices have gone up. I would think very carefully about getting married with the traditional ceremony because the average cost is 15,000 to 20,000 pounds [$24,000 to $32,000]. I would rather use that money to buy a house. And I would have children only if I owned my own place and could afford them.